Ponder: Say You'll Remember Me

Say You'll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez ©2025 is a romantic comedy but it is not frivolous. I rate it four stars. The tension does not come from the guy being a chauvinistic pig nor from the woman being a belligerent women's libber.  The conflict arises from other stresses that accompany more serious issues. The author Abby Jimenez alerts the reader to this situation with an Author's Note at the beginning of the book.

Xavier is a vet who is working hard to establish his own private vet practice, with its associated long working hours and the financial debts inherent with a startup. He is self-made, having come from an abusive childhood. He lives and works in Minnesota. Samantha, as a social media manager, is a whiz at internet advertising slogans and campaigns. (Her clever ads for Murkle's Mustard kept me chuckling.) She has a mother in California who is suffering from late stage dementia. The family has promised her that she will live out her days at home. Samantha intends to relocate out of state, rearranging her life to assist her family in her mother's care.

Xavier and Samantha swiftly develop deep feelings for each other after just one, looong, date that both of them are reluctant to see come to an end. They are kept apart, not by foolishness, but rather by a sense of loyalty, unselfishness, and duty. The logistics to stay together are mind-bogglingly difficult to negotiate. At their parting for Samantha to move to California, she begs Xavier to forget her since long distance relationships rarely work out. But, alas, these two soul mates are relentlessly drawn to each other.

This was an engaging read for me which I thoroughly enjoyed and read over two days. (I started it late one evening otherwise I think I would have read it all in one sitting.) Romance novels are meant to be light reading; they are great to intersperse with more literary rated genres which can be harder reads. Indeed, some of the background topics of this book were serious but they did not drag down the overall tone. The back stories were as interesting as the romantic relationship. Say You'll Remember Me had enough angst to keep me reading but also had an abundance of magnetic motives that were refreshing above and beyond being merely sexual. Here is a review of this book from bookishelf which pretty much echoes my opinion but with more detail.  Can the title Say You'll Remember Me possible tie back to the dementia undercurrent? Ah... another small detail that made me like this book!

★★★★☆ Really good; maybe only one weak aspect or limited audience